It is no magic formula, like pretty much every other guy in the world, since that time I was old enough, sex has consumed my mind. At the time I wasn't old enough to understand the difference between good sex, OK intercourse, bad sex, Great Sex... Sex was sex. In addition to then sex was mainly internet porn, which at that time wasn't almost as developed as it is now. This was in the call up days, where I was "surfing the web" with either an AOL, Compuserve, or Prodigy free trial. I guess at that time, the modems were not fast enough to even watch videos as if you can today. A picture said a thousand words. The only videos were on tapes which some friend would have present in his parents secret hiding spot in the closet. VHS Tapes, not DVDs...
I actually guess at that time, I assumed all sexual intercourse was Great porn star sex. With the size and stamina of the porn star guys, and that all girls would take it like porn star girls. After all, porn was basically my handbook, helpful information that showed me personally up close and personal the birds and bees (an analogy I still don't get). Tips how to give her great intercourse.
But that was then and this is now. I am no more a virgin, and I do understand the difference between the varying levels of sex, from bad to GREAT!! And reality set in as far as my performance compared to porn star sex. Nevertheless in the beginning, even bad sex was sexual intercourse, therefore it was great. Exactly how to give her great sex wasn't as important. I wasn't even that interested on tricks for sex. Not until later did I really the distinction, and now that I am older, actually care about having great romps in the sack as opposed to a average sprint.
My goals have changed, and I noticed how much better Excellent Sex is compared to bad sex, or even OK sex. , nor get me wrong, OK sex isn't bad, and probably has the highest frequency, but still, when the time is there huge cum shots and the youngsters (the forget me nots from a hopefully great spin through the sheets because to have kids for a 2 minute quickie is a shame) are away at grandmom's; that is the time for GREAT sex. A night out with wifey, a nice dinner, a pair drinks, a few games of pool, slightly grooving, and cap it off with a there is certainly no person to wake up, I will make you scream for your life, position after position, I wish I had this on video moment of glory when it were anything else you will explain to the kids about when they got older.
Well, I also found out the hard way that that wasn't as easy as it sounds either. Even when the children are away, and you could do what ever you want, it shouldn't always work out as planned. Most likely tired from a long day at work, getting older your sex drive isn't as keen as it once was, and never having sex every day (sometimes multiple times a day) similar to the vacation years your stamina may have waned a lttle bit from what it once was.
I have been there, done that. But I have also stumbled after one more secret women have been keeping from us; Man Kegel Exercises. Yes, men can do them too. Just like keeping your other muscles in form, you can keep your intercourse muscles (PC muscles), in condition through kegel exercises. You can do them like how women do, by clenching the muscles in your Taint (it ain't your balls, it ain't your ass), holding and releasing. Or I actually have also found a set that lets you do kegels like a man should, with weights.
Yet whatever way you determine to do the exercises, take this secret and run by it. Do it for your pre-teen self who was "surfing the web" with dreams of great porn star sex. Get it done for the pornstar guide you used as your tip giving guide. Perform it for yourself, here and now. You spend your life living your for your family, take this one and do it for you. And I feel sure your wife will be more than happy to get her heart sporting and her juices streaming. Because that another key. Women love sex too, although not the 1 moment in and out preceding my quick sleep sex. Great I'm going to cause you to cum twice intercourse (but that's an article for another time). It can a win win situation. Enjoy!!